人情公價2024|新娘指定金器做禮物 買完要求夾錢+人情另計 網民斥離譜:面皮幾呎厚!
2024-04-22 00:00
人情公價2024|親朋好友結婚成家立室是開心事,為了祝賀一對新人,不少人都會視乎熟稔程度做「人情」,甚至送上結婚禮物。送禮自然是個人心意,但是有新人竟然主動「開聲」,要求朋友送上指定禮物?有港女於網上論壇大呻新娘朋友未派帖,已經指定要朋友們送金,更表示自己買完讓大家「夾錢」,網民力斥離譜,更教港女如何應對。
新娘未派帖已指定要送金做結婚禮物 自行選購要求朋友夾錢+人情另計
點擊睇新娘未派帖先要求送金:
![點擊睇新娘未派帖先要求送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/245594a4c8b0ac494743b161ea617ce6/2024-04/1_3_32.png)
![親戚朋友結婚是開心事,如果雙方關係良好,多數都會出席飲宴](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4f4667ceaf6c5d3280baf00d9c8107c9/2024-04/2_1_6.png)
![如果關係更加親密甚至會送上結婚禮物](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/e5fb4b832c00f2f0b7f83af422fa1d74/2024-04/3_2_21.png)
![送禮是個人的心意,但如果新人主動「開聲」表明禮物便有點過份](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/27db34dd8f9abfbe9ee7f519ba73d0e1/2024-04/4_27.png)
![一位港女於網上論壇分享其即將結婚的新娘朋友](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/daffff2a7b73d840b7cc927a24136985/2024-04/5_0_3.png)
![該名朋友將於年尾結婚,現在未派帖便於群組內要求朋友們送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/cc2d4f8d2f04b30da64e1f523d1251f0/2024-04/6_3_9.png)
![新娘表示可能先行到金行自行選購,「大家夾返錢畀佢」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3c19b2a606f4615a95e9d142ac2e5a30/2024-04/7_1_36.png)
![女事主認為現在未派帖,而且金價昂貴](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a79168a236afbaf6c7d97a4555e94fe8/2024-04/8_1_33.png)
![加上未試過送這價錢的禮物給朋友](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/bd92fe39efc6be47fa589246200c115b/2024-04/9_1_21.png)
![女事主表示自己是普通打工仔,「在職貧窮」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/20849b59c5291b94cfad52ae0dad8621/2024-04/10_1_20.png)
![而且人情還是另計,又是另一筆開支負擔](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/2b373bb6db0ad20e1a279c44e040896b/2024-04/2_5_23.png)
![她與新娘有共同朋友,得知新娘要求另外一班朋友「買CHANEL定Hermès」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a991e2d7fa17488c076fb34fc6599f4c/2024-04/12_0_9.png)
![按香港人往常慣例,通常金器是由長輩、父母送出](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/243528909e6fdc7e5f1d2d1550b0ad40/2024-04/13_17.png)
![向朋友要求送上金器甚為罕見,故此一眾網友均表示未試過相關經驗](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6c5773fbed42fe3aebd038cce653bfd7/2024-04/14_21.png)
![更狠批新娘為人無恥、厚面皮及貪心](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/9cf8a614f9da32a00e062af084028300/2024-04/15_14.png)
![紛紛勸喻女事主表態拒絕,以免最後要為金器找數](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b838b0c8fcb220a6aec474e07b3bf34c/2024-04/16_24.png)
一名港女於網上論壇尋求網友的意見,她表示有一位相識多年的朋友將於年底結婚成為新娘子。惟這位新娘向他們一班朋友預先要求送金器作結婚禮物,更表示可能會自行選購後再讓大家「夾錢」。女事主透露自己只是普通打工仔,人情已經是一筆開支,現在新娘「大安旨意」要朋友夾錢送金,不知應該如何處理,因此發文向其他網友求教有沒有類似的送禮經驗。
網民批評新娘太過份:呢啲朋友絕交啦!當朋友水魚!
![點擊睇網民回應新娘要求送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c75ad9f9958c80e0ea0682ca48fee270/2024-04/37_21.png)
![識幾年朋友唔會送金啦,而家金價已經好貴,這些朋友想多了](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/dcf9f495d870a0de9b0bd789ea544a97/2024-04/38_24.png)
![佢冇嘢呀…… 真係聞所未聞](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/5fc09e2da14a9d581002d40b5f4e1d24/2024-04/39_25.png)
![如果佢規定要我送金我唔會送,連飲都唔去](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/83b0b836255989dc9aefb9b4d9c8c921/2024-04/40_22.png)
![送箱柑算啦](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c9909b7e18a9c70f4077d662501a4ac0/2024-04/41_23.png)
![個新娘都好老奉](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3bc10e75cf4f1cfed752f4b8bd8bef9e/2024-04/42_24.png)
![新娘真係超超超厚面皮!仲要依家金咁貴](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/67cb8d01525fbc21c71ae7ffe475e0fc/2024-04/43_27.png)
![咁樣指明朋友送乜禮物,我唔會去兼唔會接封帖](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/902ed6e864beed5d824d780b43ace38e/2024-04/44_27.png)
![喜酒都未必去飲,封番份人情仔就算,唔理佢買乜](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a85b3b90e2ebd4de04d2296253835519/2024-04/45_25.png)
![喜酒都未必去飲,封番份人情仔就算,唔理佢買乜](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/ece7b1c197d88d60563969c3c92fc329/2024-04/46_23.png)
![金器通常係斟茶俾長輩時收,大家平輩點會送金器](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8b87cb803dc4b5c47bcb3c634028d499/2024-04/47_23.png)
![唔係佢話點就點,唔駛理佢,佢話要打對龍鳳鈪你又照俾咩](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b7320264a09a8d2269edc260490cbf9f/2024-04/48_27.png)
![就算親戚都唔會講出口](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a762023592eac1353a6c447d0581bf6f/2024-04/49_25.png)
![從未聽過,金只會送俾親人](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/7ca22a05ab5389546831cfd450f69487/2024-04/50_23.png)
![唔會去飲,人情都慳返](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/97547d89c488ed8cdce0c10ce2a2196f/2024-04/51_23.png)
![佢唔客氣洗乜同佢客氣,我真係會講:你唔去買層豪宅叫賓客一齊夾?](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b3e7fae9bd2b2bef3f6706d720416f3d/2024-04/52_21.png)
![cheap到無朋友做,快d劃清界線割蓆啦](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8a59d4f169c51539ed56bdbe2f087567/2024-04/53_21.png)
![其實唔係結婚,係新型騙局嚟㗎?](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4dc361bb3e42dfc6163371e096854d1f/2024-04/54_22.png)
![從未聽過叫朋友送金咁貪心喎](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/ee5a6542e76e3bd1e73e4046d74369c0/2024-04/55_21.png)
![佢係想擺酒有多d金充場面 叫d傻仔夾錢 而家金貴](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8a3653e64ae9c827b62bee6db5225545/2024-04/56_20.png)
帖文引來大批網民熱烈討論,一面倒表示這位新娘未免太過「厚面皮」,金器多是由一對新人斟茶給長輩時,由長輩送出,「平輩點會送金器」、「正常係咪應該親戚父母奶奶送?」、「從未聽過,金只會送俾親人」。網民認為新娘可能想結婚時多點金器充撐場面,惟現時金價昂貴,所以想由朋友夾錢。對於這位新娘的舉動,網民勸女事主要早早表態,免得新娘最後「憑單收錢」,甚至建議女事主趕快絕交,「唔會去飲,人情都慳返」。有網民搞笑表示「送箱柑算啦」、「其實唔係結婚,係新型騙局嚟㗎?」。
2024年最新人情公價 唔出席飲宴都要畀人情?
![點擊睇2024年婚宴人情公價](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4b7616df8228260a19a64b5adb45db3a/2024-04/23_27.png)
![人情的本質是賓客向新人送上心意,坊間的「人情公價」都是參考數字](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/d6e1e79e9e751216e1d3a759f9beb03b/2024-04/24_24.png)
![人情金額按婚宴場地及雙方的關係親密度而定](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/beb8d8c103b51e03f39a473123dd8ec2/2024-04/25_25.png)
![如果雙方份屬好友,賓客可考慮調高金額](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/2d726a99dc5b087c12878def03384b16/2024-04/26_23.png)
![坊間調查曾整合了2024年人情中位數,大家可以作參考](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6abc5bb755b0910de46b792268aba0df/2024-04/27_23.png)
![高級酒店人情$1500](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/188c610aaca5148ef047ad17a04f3126/2024-04/28_0_6.png)
![一般酒店人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/17e73bc229fea6be5dff92504048806a/2024-04/29_0_6.png)
![私人會所人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3547e79d9955fac51a97e534ac448168/2024-04/30_0_5.png)
![特色婚宴場地人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/112f897339f853f1485d137421b4b4ee/2024-04/31_18.png)
![酒樓人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/157d85551b90f1c38b6712596ff95de5/2024-04/32_0_5.png)
![午間婚宴人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6426d819577e430d90c93a4c02a674cf/2024-04/33_18.png)
![西餐廳人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c0cf077462d45f940df59f8531794278/2024-04/34_20.png)
![酒會人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/50e241afa01695fd8697fe7b15a36d96/2024-04/35_22.png)
![只出席婚姻註冊處或教堂簽紙儀式人情$500](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/698f274661c58759f10fa29aae78151b/2024-04/36_0_4.png)
![只收餅卡,不出席婚禮或婚宴人情$300](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/5c3a83cf3274a86586e74123a5051173/2024-04/37_0_4.png)
大多新人邀請朋友出席婚宴時,會先詢問對方會否出席才派帖。如果女事主收到請帖,最後決定不出席的話,她或許需要送上人情,聊表心意。其實,香港人出席飲宴封人情,按慣例都是視乎新人舉行婚宴的場地及雙方關係的親密程度。坊間的人情公價都是參考數字,人情的本質是賓客向新人送上的心意,向一對新人送上祝福。
2024年人情公價參考價錢:
婚宴場地/形式 | 2023/24人情中位數 |
高級酒店 | $1500 |
一般酒店 | $1000 |
私人會所 | $1000 |
特色婚宴場地 | $1000 |
酒樓 | $800 |
午間婚宴 | $800 |
酒會 | $800 |
西餐廳 | $800 |
只出席婚姻註冊處 或教堂簽紙儀式 | $500 |
只收餅卡, 不出席婚禮或婚宴 | $300 |
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