人情公价2024|新娘指定金器做礼物 买完要求夹钱+人情另计 网民斥离谱:面皮几尺厚!
2024-04-22 00:00
人情公价2024|亲朋好友结婚成家立室是开心事,为了祝贺一对新人,不少人都会视乎熟稔程度做「人情」,甚至送上结婚礼物。送礼自然是个人心意,但是有新人竟然主动「开声」,要求朋友送上指定礼物?有港女于网上论坛大呻新娘朋友未派帖,已经指定要朋友们送金,更表示自己买完让大家「夹钱」,网民力斥离谱,更教港女如何应对。
新娘未派帖已指定要送金做结婚礼物 自行选购要求朋友夹钱+人情另计
点击睇新娘未派帖先要求送金:
![点击睇新娘未派帖先要求送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/245594a4c8b0ac494743b161ea617ce6/2024-04/1_3_32.png)
![亲戚朋友结婚是开心事,如果双方关系良好,多数都会出席饮宴](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4f4667ceaf6c5d3280baf00d9c8107c9/2024-04/2_1_6.png)
![如果关系更加亲密甚至会送上结婚礼物](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/e5fb4b832c00f2f0b7f83af422fa1d74/2024-04/3_2_21.png)
![送礼是个人的心意,但如果新人主动「开声」表明礼物便有点过份](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/27db34dd8f9abfbe9ee7f519ba73d0e1/2024-04/4_27.png)
![一位港女于网上论坛分享其即将结婚的新娘朋友](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/daffff2a7b73d840b7cc927a24136985/2024-04/5_0_3.png)
![该名朋友将于年尾结婚,现在未派帖便于群组内要求朋友们送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/cc2d4f8d2f04b30da64e1f523d1251f0/2024-04/6_3_9.png)
![新娘表示可能先行到金行自行选购,「大家夹返钱畀佢」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3c19b2a606f4615a95e9d142ac2e5a30/2024-04/7_1_36.png)
![女事主认为现在未派帖,而且金价昂贵](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a79168a236afbaf6c7d97a4555e94fe8/2024-04/8_1_33.png)
![加上未试过送这价钱的礼物给朋友](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/bd92fe39efc6be47fa589246200c115b/2024-04/9_1_21.png)
![女事主表示自己是普通打工仔,「在职贫穷」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/20849b59c5291b94cfad52ae0dad8621/2024-04/10_1_20.png)
![而且人情还是另计,又是另一笔开支负担](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/2b373bb6db0ad20e1a279c44e040896b/2024-04/2_5_23.png)
![她与新娘有共同朋友,得知新娘要求另外一班朋友「买CHANEL定Hermès」](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a991e2d7fa17488c076fb34fc6599f4c/2024-04/12_0_9.png)
![按香港人往常惯例,通常金器是由长辈、父母送出](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/243528909e6fdc7e5f1d2d1550b0ad40/2024-04/13_17.png)
![向朋友要求送上金器甚为罕见,故此一众网友均表示未试过相关经验](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6c5773fbed42fe3aebd038cce653bfd7/2024-04/14_21.png)
![更狠批新娘为人无耻、厚面皮及贪心](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/9cf8a614f9da32a00e062af084028300/2024-04/15_14.png)
![纷纷劝喻女事主表态拒绝,以免最后要为金器找数](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b838b0c8fcb220a6aec474e07b3bf34c/2024-04/16_24.png)
一名港女于网上论坛寻求网友的意见,她表示有一位相识多年的朋友将于年底结婚成为新娘子。惟这位新娘向他们一班朋友预先要求送金器作结婚礼物,更表示可能会自行选购后再让大家「夹钱」。女事主透露自己只是普通打工仔,人情已经是一笔开支,现在新娘「大安旨意」要朋友夹钱送金,不知应该如何处理,因此发文向其他网友求教有没有类似的送礼经验。
网民批评新娘太过份:呢啲朋友绝交啦!当朋友水鱼!
![点击睇网民回应新娘要求送金](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c75ad9f9958c80e0ea0682ca48fee270/2024-04/37_21.png)
![识几年朋友唔会送金啦,而家金价已经好贵,这些朋友想多了](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/dcf9f495d870a0de9b0bd789ea544a97/2024-04/38_24.png)
![佢冇嘢呀…… 真系闻所未闻](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/5fc09e2da14a9d581002d40b5f4e1d24/2024-04/39_25.png)
![如果佢规定要我送金我唔会送,连饮都唔去](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/83b0b836255989dc9aefb9b4d9c8c921/2024-04/40_22.png)
![送箱柑算啦](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c9909b7e18a9c70f4077d662501a4ac0/2024-04/41_23.png)
![个新娘都好老奉](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3bc10e75cf4f1cfed752f4b8bd8bef9e/2024-04/42_24.png)
![新娘真系超超超厚面皮!仲要依家金咁贵](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/67cb8d01525fbc21c71ae7ffe475e0fc/2024-04/43_27.png)
![咁样指明朋友送乜礼物,我唔会去兼唔会接封帖](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/902ed6e864beed5d824d780b43ace38e/2024-04/44_27.png)
![喜酒都未必去饮,封番份人情仔就算,唔理佢买乜](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a85b3b90e2ebd4de04d2296253835519/2024-04/45_25.png)
![喜酒都未必去饮,封番份人情仔就算,唔理佢买乜](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/ece7b1c197d88d60563969c3c92fc329/2024-04/46_23.png)
![金器通常系斟茶俾长辈时收,大家平辈点会送金器](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8b87cb803dc4b5c47bcb3c634028d499/2024-04/47_23.png)
![唔系佢话点就点,唔驶理佢,佢话要打对龙凤鈪你又照俾咩](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b7320264a09a8d2269edc260490cbf9f/2024-04/48_27.png)
![就算亲戚都唔会讲出口](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/a762023592eac1353a6c447d0581bf6f/2024-04/49_25.png)
![从未听过,金只会送俾亲人](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/7ca22a05ab5389546831cfd450f69487/2024-04/50_23.png)
![唔会去饮,人情都悭返](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/97547d89c488ed8cdce0c10ce2a2196f/2024-04/51_23.png)
![佢唔客气洗乜同佢客气,我真系会讲:你唔去买层豪宅叫宾客一齐夹?](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/b3e7fae9bd2b2bef3f6706d720416f3d/2024-04/52_21.png)
![cheap到无朋友做,快d划清界线割席啦](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8a59d4f169c51539ed56bdbe2f087567/2024-04/53_21.png)
![其实唔系结婚,系新型骗局嚟㗎?](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4dc361bb3e42dfc6163371e096854d1f/2024-04/54_22.png)
![从未听过叫朋友送金咁贪心喎](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/ee5a6542e76e3bd1e73e4046d74369c0/2024-04/55_21.png)
![佢系想摆酒有多d金充场面 叫d傻仔夹钱 而家金贵](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/8a3653e64ae9c827b62bee6db5225545/2024-04/56_20.png)
帖文引来大批网民热烈讨论,一面倒表示这位新娘未免太过「厚面皮」,金器多是由一对新人斟茶给长辈时,由长辈送出,「平辈点会送金器」、「正常系咪应该亲戚父母奶奶送?」、「从未听过,金只会送俾亲人」。网民认为新娘可能想结婚时多点金器充撑场面,惟现时金价昂贵,所以想由朋友夹钱。对于这位新娘的举动,网民劝女事主要早早表态,免得新娘最后「凭单收钱」,甚至建议女事主赶快绝交,「唔会去饮,人情都悭返」。有网民搞笑表示「送箱柑算啦」、「其实唔系结婚,系新型骗局嚟㗎?」。
2024年最新人情公价 唔出席饮宴都要畀人情?
![点击睇2024年婚宴人情公价](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/4b7616df8228260a19a64b5adb45db3a/2024-04/23_27.png)
![人情的本质是宾客向新人送上心意,坊间的「人情公价」都是参考数字](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/d6e1e79e9e751216e1d3a759f9beb03b/2024-04/24_24.png)
![人情金额按婚宴场地及双方的关系亲密度而定](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/beb8d8c103b51e03f39a473123dd8ec2/2024-04/25_25.png)
![如果双方份属好友,宾客可考虑调高金额](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/2d726a99dc5b087c12878def03384b16/2024-04/26_23.png)
![坊间调查曾整合了2024年人情中位数,大家可以作参考](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6abc5bb755b0910de46b792268aba0df/2024-04/27_23.png)
![高级酒店人情$1500](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/188c610aaca5148ef047ad17a04f3126/2024-04/28_0_6.png)
![一般酒店人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/17e73bc229fea6be5dff92504048806a/2024-04/29_0_6.png)
![私人会所人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/3547e79d9955fac51a97e534ac448168/2024-04/30_0_5.png)
![特色婚宴场地人情$1000](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/112f897339f853f1485d137421b4b4ee/2024-04/31_18.png)
![酒楼人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/157d85551b90f1c38b6712596ff95de5/2024-04/32_0_5.png)
![午间婚宴人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/6426d819577e430d90c93a4c02a674cf/2024-04/33_18.png)
![西餐厅人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/c0cf077462d45f940df59f8531794278/2024-04/34_20.png)
![酒会人情$800](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/50e241afa01695fd8697fe7b15a36d96/2024-04/35_22.png)
![只出席婚姻注册处或教堂签纸仪式人情$500](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/698f274661c58759f10fa29aae78151b/2024-04/36_0_4.png)
![只收饼卡,不出席婚礼或婚宴人情$300](https://image.hkhl.hk/f/1024p0/0x0/100/none/5c3a83cf3274a86586e74123a5051173/2024-04/37_0_4.png)
大多新人邀请朋友出席婚宴时,会先询问对方会否出席才派帖。如果女事主收到请帖,最后决定不出席的话,她或许需要送上人情,聊表心意。其实,香港人出席饮宴封人情,按惯例都是视乎新人举行婚宴的场地及双方关系的亲密程度。坊间的人情公价都是参考数字,人情的本质是宾客向新人送上的心意,向一对新人送上祝福。
2024年人情公价参考价钱:
婚宴场地/形式 | 2023/24人情中位数 |
高级酒店 | $1500 |
一般酒店 | $1000 |
私人会所 | $1000 |
特色婚宴场地 | $1000 |
酒楼 | $800 |
午间婚宴 | $800 |
酒会 | $800 |
西餐厅 | $800 |
只出席婚姻注册处 或教堂签纸仪式 | $500 |
只收饼卡, 不出席婚礼或婚宴 | $300 |
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